sex music?

Q: does the presence of music effect the speed/duration of your sex sessions?

Aight, so I was at work doing a very good job of not doing any work and a question popped into my mind. Well, rather several scenarios that led me to a question. As my mind wondered, the times that I have had sex kept popping up. At first it was kinda creepy, but then I started paying attention to the details of each encounter.

Not so much what the person and I were doing, but rather what was going on in the background. I noticed that, most of the time, there is no music. That kinda threw me for a loop. I mean I have bunches of 'sex mixes', 'mood music' and 'panty dropper mixes' but I rarely use them. Why, then, take the time to make them?

Of course, there are certain songs that 'take me there' and those are definitely on the playlist(s). Hmmm, so then I got to thinking that maybe the times where music was involved, it wasn't so good. Actually, the two (yes, two) times where music was involved, it was pretty damn good. So, that further leads me to wonder why I don't have sex to music.

First, I just don't think about it. I mean I want what I want and what I want ain't a soundtrack! LOL! Second, as much as it pains me to say this, I have not made love much. It has been mostly 'wham, bam, thank you ma'am' type interactions. There is no need to set the mood then. We both know what we want, so why we playing.

Third, closely related to reason #2, I have never really seen the need to set the mood. With all that being said, I have noticed the speed with which Secret and I go from being fully clothed to between each others thighs. And yes, it bothers me. I want to be able to set the mood, dance to some hot music, and then explore every inch of her.

I'm not blaming this on the absence of music. I mean damn I only see her every couple of months, so I want to get as much in as possible. With music being important to the both of us, it seems to only make sense that we incorporate it our most intimate time. I think a nice, slow mix will help me to slow down and make love to the woman I love.

So, yes, music does affect speed for me. With music, it's slower, more intimate, and more intense. Without music, it's fast and to the point. Duration? Nah, not so much. Either way, I'm an energizer bunny. LOL! This is why I don't need downtime at work. My thoughts take me random places and it

Makes. No. Sense.