So, I have been working on this list for a while. I actually ended up with four lists; what each of us brings (or should bring) to the table and personality traits. I have concluded that I want someone like me. That whole opposites attract thing is a lie. I think similarities attract and opposites make it interesting. That's my story and I'm sticking to it! Of course the day I post this, OneChele has a letter to 20-somethings posted at BnB. Great. My naivete is probably showing....
On to the lists....
What I bring
multiple degrees
career and vocation
domestic skills
feasible life plan/goals
retirement plans
reasonably well put together
strong moral compass
good work ethic
committed to professional development
committed to self-improvement
independent
Personality traits
kind
sense of purpose
sense of humor (a small one)
respectful
sweet
creative
cultured
travelled
sense of self/being
lover of arts
out and proud
passion for life
What I (should) require
at least one degree
feasible life plan/goals
reasonably well put together
strong moral compass
career
good work ethic
committed to self-improvement
committed to professional development
independent
Personality traits
sense of humor
sense of purpose
down to earth
lover of arts
sense of self
respectful
kind
responsible
out and proud
passion for life
So, there you have it. My lists. Maybe it's just me but they feel so incomplete, like I know I missed something important. And I know, they are so subjective. Now, that I've put it out there, my lists seem to
Make. No. Sense.
Foxy, I totally agree with the whole similarities attract and opposites makes it intersting. Goes along the lines of being "equally yoked". Further, I believe you should be true to you and what you need and want in a relationship. It will be provided. "Faith of a mustard seed" :-)
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